June 1–5, 2026 | Napa Valley, California
A sensory, soul-led retreat for Black women travelers who desire softness, depth, and community.
✨ THE VIBE: A RETURN TO SOFTNESS
TRIBE 2026 is an intimate, 5-day healing and luxury retreat for Black women who are ready to return to themselves with gentleness, intention, and elevation.
This is a gathering for women who crave:
- soft luxury
- deep rest
- beautiful sensory experiences
- healing through community
- meaningful conversation
- elegant, curated moments
- and a pace that honors the nervous system
This retreat is intentionally slow, sensual, grounded, and beautifully designed.
If you desire a space where you can be fully seen, softened, supported, and inspired —
you are our ideal guest.
This is your soft return.

🌿 WHO THIS RETREAT IS FOR
This retreat is ideal for you if:
- You’re craving a reset, clarity, and emotional spaciousness
- You want to travel in a way that feels safe, beautiful, and affirming
- You’re ready to meet soul-aligned women and queer travelers
- You desire luxury without overwhelm
- You want a blend of community and private time
- You’re a sensitive, intuitive, or spiritually attuned person
- You love wine, softness, deep conversations, and beautiful atmospheres
- You want a retreat that is as nourishing as it is unforgettable
This experience is intentionally capped to preserve intimacy and depth.

🕊️ RETREAT INCLUSIONS
Every guest receives:
✨ Luxury Dinner en Blanc at a Napa Valley Vineyard
A stunning outdoor white-themed dinner with twinkle lights, wine pairings, and curated ambiance. Select California influencers may join us for this signature evening.
✨ Welcome and farewell cocktail hours
Connect with your fellow attendees and toast to a beautiful experience
✨ Private Wine Tasting Experience at a Black-owned winery
Slow, sensory, elegant — a lovely afternoon of discovery.
✨ Two Thought Leader Sessions
Deep, grounded workshops facilitated by mental health and life-alignment experts.
✨ Speed Friendship Networking Session
Gentle, guided connection to help you meet your TRIBE.
✨ Pajama Party + Soft Indulgence Night for the first 7 women who register
Comfort, laughter, and bonding, TRIBE style.
✨ Luxury Goodie Bag
Hand-selected gifts to pamper your senses and honor your journey.
✨ Airport Transportation from SFO
Two scheduled shuttles will transport guests to our three recommended hotels.
(If you cannot meet those shuttle times, you will need to secure your own transportation.)
✨ Access to Booked and Bougie
Nonmembers who register will receive 30 days of complimentary access to the fabulous Booked and Bougie community.
Hotel accommodations are booked separately by each guest.
đź«¶ OUR HOTEL RECOMMENDATIONS
Choose the accommodation that best fits your vibe and budget. Each hotel is within minutes of our event locations, dining, shops, and wine tasting rooms.
🌟 1. Archer Hotel Napa (Premium | Retreat Headquarters)
The vibe: Modern luxury, intimate design, rooftop views, elevated comfort.
Why stay here: The rooftop is a stunning gathering space, and the hotel is steps from downtown restaurants and shops.
Perfect for: Guests who want the most convenient, elevated, boutique-luxury stay.
✨ 2. Andaz Napa (Modern Boutique | Chic & Stylish)
The vibe: Warm, upscale, artistic, airy.
Why stay here: Located in the heart of downtown, Andaz blends Napa luxury with a youthful, creative feel. Spacious rooms, gorgeous lounges, and curated design details make this a perfect space for soft-luxury travelers. It’s a short walk to tasting rooms, coffee shops, and evening dining.
Perfect for: Guests who love a polished, modern, lifestyle-hotel aesthetic.
🌿 3. Napa River Inn (Historic | Romantic & Cozy)
The vibe: Boutique charm, waterfront elegance, intimate ambiance.
Why stay here: Set along the Napa riverfront, this hotel offers a softer, classic Napa feel. Brick walls, timeless design, and cozy touches make it feel like a warm retreat. It’s ideal for guests who want a slower, more romantic, grounding environment.
Perfect for: Travelers seeking atmosphere, quiet luxury, and a charming historic stay.
🌸 THE ITINERARY
All moments are intentionally spacious, grounded, and sensory. This is a soft retreat.
DAY 1 — June 1, 2026
Arrivals + Soft Landing
- Land at SFO
- Group shuttle transfers with drop-offs at each recommended hotel
- Settle in, unpack, soften into your space
- 6:00 PM — Welcome Cocktail Hour- Meet and greet your fellow travelers and receive your gift bags. Photo opportunities.
- Evening free to explore downtown Napa
DAY 2 — June 2, 2026
The Soft Return Sessions
- Slow morning
- 11:00 AM–4:00 PM: TRIBE Sessions
- Opening session
- Workshops with Thought Leaders
- Speed friendship networking
- Afternoon + evening free for dinner, rest, or exploration
- Optional: Pajama Party for the first 7 Early Bird guests who register
DAY 3 — June 3, 2026
Wine Country Magic
- Optional gentle stretch / private yoga session at a local yoga studio
- Free morning
- Afternoon Private Wine Tasting in town
- Evening Luxury Dinner en Blanc at a vineyard with private transportation
- All-white attire
- Outdoor seated dinner
- Wine pairings
- Beautiful ambiance
- Influencers & special guests may join us
This is our signature night.
DAY 4 — June 4, 2026
Soft Freedom Day
- A full free day to explore
- Recommendations: hot air balloon rides, spas, wine tasting rooms, downtown boutiques, river walks
- 7:00 PM — Farewell Toast
DAY 5 — June 5, 2026
Departures + Optional Wine Auction
- Group shuttle to SFO
- Or remain in Napa for the Napa Valley Wine Auction Weekend
🍇 About the Napa Valley Wine Auction (June 5-6)
A prestigious, luxury event attracting wine collectors, philanthropists, and tastemakers from around the world.
Booked & Bougie members are welcome to join me as I remain in town for the auction festivities. Click here to learn more and secure your ticket.
đź’« BOOKING, PRICING, + PAYMENT PLAN
We have three tiers based on availability. Click here to secure your spot.
✨ EARLY BIRD — $2,888 per person
7 spots only
Deposit: $250
✨ STANDARD — $3,333 per person
Deposit: $350
✨ LAST CALL — $3,777 per person
Deposit: $350
🗓️ PAYMENT SCHEDULE
- Deposit: $100 on 2/19 and $250 on 2/27
- March 13, 2026: $1,000
- April 3, 2026: Final balance
All payments are nonrefundable. Cancellations made after March 13, 2026 remain responsible for the full retreat package balance.
Travel insurance is required to travel with the group. Please invest in the travel insurance package provided during registration, or secure your own policy within two weeks of booking your reservation. Ensure you have cancel anytime or cancel for any reason coverage.Â
đź’› WHY THE HOTEL IS SEPARATE THIS YEAR
To ensure a sustainable, beautifully curated, high-quality retreat experience, all guests will book their own hotel accommodations. This allows flexibility in pricing and room choice, and allows us to fully allocate resources toward the elevated experiences that make TRIBE unforgettable.
đź’• ARE YOU READY FOR YOUR SOFT RETURN?
This is a retreat for the woman who is ready to:
- reconnect with her softness
- experience wine country in luxury
- meet aligned community
- laugh, heal, and rest
- step into the next season of her life with grace
Your TRIBE is waiting for you.
Reserve your seat today.
🌿Frequently Asked Questions
✨ What is the theme of TRIBE 2026?
The Soft Return.
This retreat is all about slowing down, coming home to yourself, reconnecting with pleasure, and experiencing Napa Valley through a soft, sensory, grounded pace. Expect healing, beauty, and community — without overwhelm or obligation.
✨ What should I wear?
Think soft luxury meets wine-country elegance.
Recommended styles:
- Flowy dresses
- Linen sets
- Silk, satin, or breathable fabrics
- Neutrals, pastels, earth tones
- Chic sandals, comfortable walking shoes
- Light layers for cool Napa evenings
Dinner en Blanc:
All-white attire is required. Think elegant, elevated, and timeless.
✨ Do I need travel insurance?
Yes.
Travel insurance is mandatory for all guests to protect your investment and ensure you’re covered in case of emergencies, cancellations, or travel delays.
✨ Is the retreat refundable?
All payments—including deposits and installments—are nonrefundable.
This ensures we can secure vendors, experiences, transportation, and facilitators on your behalf.
Travel insurance is required to provide optional personal coverage for unexpected circumstances.
✨ What airport should I fly into?
Please book your flight into:
San Francisco International Airport (SFO)
Two group shuttles will be provided from SFO to our three recommended hotels.
Shuttle times will be shared closer to travel; they will likely be 12 PM and 2 PM local time.
If you cannot align with a shuttle time, you’ll need to arrange your own transportation to Napa.
✨ How do I get to the hotel?
We provide:
- Two scheduled shuttles from SFO to the Archer Hotel
- The shuttle will then stop at our two additional recommended hotels
On departure day, the shuttle will return guests to SFO.
If you miss the shuttle or require different timing, please arrange an Uber, Lyft, or private transfer.
✨ Where will we be staying?
Guests will book their own hotel accommodations from our curated list:
Premium: Archer Hotel Napa
Mid-Range: The Napa River Inn
Boutique/Chic: Andaz Napa Valley
Sessions and events will be within walking distance of each hotel. Transportation will be provided for our Dinner En Blanc.
✨ Why isn’t the hotel included in the package?
To create a sustainable, high-quality retreat, the 2026 model allows guests to choose the hotel that fits their budget and preferences.
This flexibility means more accessible pricing, more freedom, and more focus on curated experiences rather than bundled lodging.
✨ Are meals included?
Meals are included only during our:
- Luxury Dinner en Blanc
- Wine Tasting Experience (includes light pairings)
- Refreshments for breakout sessions
- Welcome Cocktail Hour
All other meals are at your discretion so you can explore the incredible dining options Napa offers.
✨ How many people will be there?
The retreat is capped at 30 guests to preserve intimacy, depth, and connection.
This is a healing, spacious, guided experience – not a large or overwhelming tour.
✨ Can I come alone?
Absolutely.
Most guests attend solo, and TRIBE is designed to make you feel safe, welcomed, and instantly connected.
The speed-friendship networking session is perfect for solo travelers.
✨ Can I bring a friend or partner?
You may bring a friend or loved one who aligns with our community values.
The retreat is open to Black women.
✨ What is the itinerary like?
The retreat has a soft, gentle pace with spacious free time.
- Day sessions
- Luxury curated events
- Free exploration days
The Soft Return is designed to avoid overwhelm and honor your nervous system, as well as give you time to explore all that Napa has to offer.
✨ What if I want to stay for the Napa Valley Wine Auction?
Guests are welcome to extend their stay in Napa.
The retreat ends on June 5, but the Napa Valley Wine Auction begins that weekend.
This event attracts wine collectors, philanthropists, and luxury partners — a beautiful way to extend your soft luxury experience.
✨ Is this retreat right for me?
This retreat is perfect for you if you want:
- soft luxury
- emotional spaciousness
- community with intention
- curated wine country experiences
- gentle pacing
- beautiful design and ambiance
- time alone and time together
- a safe space for Black women
If your soul is asking for softness, beauty, and belonging… this is your TRIBE.
✨ How do I secure my spot?
Simply choose your tier and click here to register. Tonight only (2/19), the deposit is $100 per person with $250 due on 2/27.
Early Bird — $2,888 (7 spots only) — $250 deposit- Standard — $3,333 — $350 deposit (4 remaining)
- Last Call — $3,777 — $350 deposit (3 remaining)
Payment plans are available with fixed dates.
Once your deposit is paid, your seat is held.
✨ What happens after I book?
You’ll receive:
- A confirmation email
- A packing guide (April 2026)
- A group Signal chat (two weeks before departure)
- Updates leading up to the retreat
We’ll walk with you every step of the way.
Please note that we reserve the right to change components of the retreat keeping the best interests of our guests in mind. You will be notified well in advance if a component needs to be changed.

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